This is so Junior High. There are a group of us girls here at work who order lunches together on Fridays, take people out for drinks when they are leaving the company, sign group birthday cards for each other, etc. I don't usually hang out with any of these girls outside of work, but only because everyone has their own thing going on (boyfriends, families, whatever). However, anytime I have a get together at my place or something going on, I always invite these girls.
This morning I found out that one of them had an open house Saturday at her new apartment. Someone asked me if I had gone. Well, that was the first I heard of it. I know for a fact that at least two girls out of the group had been invited and I wouldn't be surprised if the rest were as well. The girl who told me felt terrible and begged me not to say anything. She just assumed I would've been invited.
I don't know if this was deliberate or an oversight or what but either way I feel really insulted. Especially because I have invited this girl to things in the past. She and I have worked very closely together, confided in each other, and shared stories. So what do I do? Do I say something to her? Is there really any point? Do I have a party of my own and purposely invite everyone but her? Hey, I warned you up front that this was going to be juvenile. But be that as it may, my feelings are still hurt.