The HR lady asked me to have lunch on Friday. In fact, she sent me an email - one of those emails that looks like a little invitation and you can hit accept or decline and it will go back to the person who sent it. I am slightly suspicious and highly paranoid when something like this arises. I've been hurt in the past by people I've trusted in the business world and I've learned that you never know when an unexpected agenda is going to pop out of nowhere. Will this be a simple friendly lunch or a complicated serious lunch?